Working with Little Miss this week has been a great experience. We had preplanned her assignments through the rest of this month. She has all of her work ready to go and in files. Each morning, we take the file of the day and I transfer it to a pocket portfolio. She completes the work and places the finished assignments into the opposite pocket when done.
The beauty of the week has been that she is working more independently that previously. She will soon be 6 year old, but has been preschooled at home prior to this first year of officially homeschooling. Had she gone to public school, she would be in Kindergarten, but she is doing 1st grade level work this year.
We had started out using the workbox system as described by Sue Patrick in her book. Over time, we dropped it, then revisited it with a few alterations. Recently, we made even more alterations. She and I both like the way we are doing it now. Her daily assignments are in file folders, with a week’s worth of daily files per hanging folder in the tote. I am still using many of Sue Patrick’s suggestions, but this space saving method works best for us. One of her ideas that I will be starting with Little Miss is the “Help” card. Little Miss is still in the habit of wanting to show me her work continually. She will complete a few of the math problems on a page, for example, then bring me to paper. This will take place several times per assignment, even when she clearly understands what the assignment instructions are. The “help” cards are a set of about 4 cards (though you can give a child more if needed in the beginning) that are placed on the child’s desk. As they are working, if they need to ask a question or get assistance AFTER the work has already been clearly explained to them, they have to present you with a help card. When the cards are all gone, they cannot ask you to look at their work again that day. The idea is to prompt the child to become more independent and only ask if the help is truly needed. For example, today Little Miss had a math assignment that was a worksheet of subtraction problems. She has been doing subtraction for over a week now and is well familiar with the way the problems are written on the sheet and how to complete them. She even has an abacus to use if necessary to aid her. When she saw the math paper, brought it to me and asked what she needed to do on it. I turned the question back to her and she explained it to me. This was clearly a time when help was not needed, but she asked out of habit. Now, if she were just learning subtraction or any other academic concept, I would include a “work with Mom” card to indicate that she needs to bring her assignment to me for assistance.
Now, I am looking at Little Man’s preschooling. I am finding that if he gets bored, he gets cranky. If he gets cranky, then he melts down. Oh the joys of Autism! LOL If I sit him at the kitchen table with a task to do, he is content and happy for nice stretches of time. I am wanting to better plan his TEACCH sessions around Little Miss’ homeschool schedule. Now that she is becoming more independent, I am going to be able to use that time frame more efficiently with Little Man. I have already bought him a preschool curriculum. A few of the sheets are very simple, but will need to be done more than just once. I will be heat laminating those pages as soon as I can get to the book store to do so. Here in our state, we have Mardel’s Christian Book Stores. They have a huge homeschooling/Christian school curriculum section in their stores with a teachers’ prep area available for public use. In that area, they have a photocopy machine, 1-2 large heat laminating machines, and some tables where you can do all of your photocopying and laminating at low cost. I pay 25 cents per foot for the heat laminating, which is far less than anywhere else. Once the pages are heat laminated, Little Man will be able to use dry erase markers on them.
At first, I am simply going to teach him to draw lines within a border. Simple enough task, but amazingly difficult for him to do. It is a very important pre-writing skill to achieve. Once he learns to draw a straight line, we will work on curves. Each one is simply drawing within a 1-inch space between 2 guide lines. The skill with involve a great amount of hand-over-hand assistance at first. Thankfully, he is very receptive to that. A year ago, he fought anyone touching his hands. Now, he realizes that it is okay and accepts it most of the time.
It is hard to believe that if he were a typical kid and were to go to public school, he would be enrolling in Pre-K next autumn. Little Man is far from ready for that. It took the better part of a year to teach him to paint without a meltdown. He is an enigma at the best of times. Just when you see him doing something that is about the level of a 2-3
year old, he will do something else that reminds you that cognitively he is still only about 12-18 months of age. I have often heard that with children with Classic Autism, you have to teach them to learn. I see daily how true that statement is. Now that I have an infant grandson, I see it even more. At about 4.5 months of age, my grandson is already feeding himself a teething biscuit and attempting to feed himself finger foods like Cheerios cereal. Little Man wasn’t able to do this until a year ago.
We are determined to teach Little Man everything we can. One day, he will be far more independent that we dream for him. He will never be a typical child or young man. He will always have Autism. But, he will grow more independent as time goes by. Through doing TEACCH tasks with him daily, and working with him throughout the day on basic life skills, he is learning. He has been trying to help dress himself and has even learned how to dunk a small basketball into a child sized free standing basketball hoop. That basketball hoop and ball has become a favorite activity of his recently. Such a simple thing, but it is teaching him eye-hand coordination as well as cause & effect. It is a start.
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